How to Give a Great Sensual Massage
A sensual massage or erotic massage doesn’t necessarily mean sex. It is still a massage but can incorporate different strokes and techniques that may not be used in a traditional massage. Sensual Massages are used by couples to express feelings and to provide the recipient with a wonderful sensual experience. Remember it is about giving even though the energy during the massage will go both ways.
We have put together some basic steps to consider when giving a sensual massage to your partner or as a practitioner to client.
The environment is critical. Create a sensual environment with a combination of lighting, sounds, scents and temperature. The temperature of the room should be set so that it is warm enough for the massage to be done with limited or no clothing. More often than not a sensual massage is performed undraped
YOUR OWN GROOMING
Make sure you are showered and well groomed. Pay particular attention to the hands and nails. If you Are a guy and plan to massage a girl then be sure that body hair is well groomed. Remember to think about the recipient and what they like.
CLEANSING AS PART OF THE MASSAGE
Particularly before the massage, a warm bath with the therapist washing the receivers body is a fantastic way to relax into the touch of massage.
If your client or partner is a little nervous then cover the buttock initially explaining that the towel can be removed as they become more comfortable. A nude body makes for a more sensuous experience with uninterrupted strokes and the even the use of the body as the massaging tool…. ie bodyslide.
You can ask before starting if there is anything the person doesn’t want touched or doesn’t like. This helps you get a sense of how comfortable the person is and how to progress tantric massage hong kong the sensual aspects of the massage.
Follow your own techniques if you have been trained, otherwise begin with the tension filled areas: back, shoulders, neck, and, for some, the lower back and buttocks. The feet can be done last before the person turns over so you can wash your hands before starting on the font. Keep movement fluid, and try to flow from one area to the next in long slow strokes. Try to avoid losing skin contact at any time. Use enough oil or lotion but be careful not to use too much. Enough is when the hands move freely over the skin.
People vary drastically in their preferences concerning massage whether it is sensual or therapeutic. Try a combination of light, ultra-light and moderate pressures. Deep tissue is not often considered sensual but again the person receiving may have a different idea. Encourage the recipient to let you know what feels good and what does not. Your subsequent massages with that person will quickly improve based on feedback.
Progress to after a fair amount of relaxation has occurred, to include the inner thighs, behind the knees, inner wrists, face and other known sensitive areas. As you give a sensual massage include long gliding strokes and for the non-ticklish, fingertip massage or feathering touches. Be guided by body language and if in doubt ask if touch to certain areas is ok.
How you finish a sensual massage or erotic massage will depend upon the person, partner or client, and your own level of comfort. Be sure to remember that it is their massage and that the ending should suit their current feeling. A client going back to work might enjoy a bath to remove excess oil. Your partner may want to continue on to more erotic playtime. The situation depends on you and your recipient. Just ensure there is a close to the massage that the recipient can distinguish.